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Breaking News: God is Bigger Than Autism

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Do me a favor. Get a piece of paper and write down a challenge you’re facing. Then write down another. It’s ok–I’ll wait. Done?

I don’t know if you’re like me, but I’m task-oriented. I’m a fixer. It’s just my nature. But in that task orientation and fixing, I can get off track.

I focus on the problems, the trials, the challenges. I “just keep swimming”, pushing ever harder against the waves, forgetting there’s a boat next to me.

I get overwhelmed by the challenges I can’t fix. I cry because my son with autism can speak, but he can’t communicate. I ask him too many questions in an effort to understand, and I make him melt away more into himself. I wish I could fix the sensory issues that bother him so he and his brother could enjoy each other more despite their differences. I wish I could help my youngest understand a little better.

I wish, I wish, I wish. I push on, hanging on to the knowledge that God is in control.

But I forget.

I forget that God is bigger. God is bigger than autism. God is bigger than Sensory Processing Disorder. God is bigger than sibling squabbles and daily stress. God is bigger than my fear. God is bigger than my anxiety. God is bigger than my lack of faith.

God. Is. Bigger.

I was struck by the end of Psalm 46 the other day. “The God of Jacob is our fortress.” Now, David was writing that many years after Jacob, but the same is true for us. The God of Jacob, Isaac, Abraham, Paul, Rahab, Esther, Ruth, Moses…he’s still the same, and he’s a fortress!

He holds me in his hand. He holds my child in his hand. And there’s room to spare. He knows what my child cannot say. And he loves us.

Take that paper out. Write God is bigger than in front of each challenge you wrote down. Tape it to your mirror. Say it out loud. Write it on your hand. Make that your one thing for the next week. He is bigger and he is a fortress. Remember that. Rehearse it.

God is bigger than autism and in that knowledge I am humbled and ever so grateful.

If you’re a special needs parent hanging on, I recommend the book The Life We Never Expected (affiliate link). I read it while waiting for jury duty. It’s full of deep truths but put in extremely easy to read language. An autism mom and dad share their struggles, and even if your child doesn’t have autism, you’ll relate to a lot of the general struggle of life. If you’re not familiar with God’s sacrificial love for you, learn more here.

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Jenny Herman

Jenny Herman wants to live in a world where dark chocolate dispensers reside on every corner. As a homeschooling special needs mom, she’s been featured in Autism Parenting Magazine, Wit and Wisdom from the Parents of Special Needs Kids: Mostly True Stories of Life on the Spectrum, and various blogs. If she survives the onslaught of testosterone in her home, she may take a moment to blog, read a book, try a new recipe, or loom knit a gift. You can find Jenny’s book The Power of One: Change Your Perspective, Change Your Life on Amazon.

4 thoughts on “Breaking News: God is Bigger Than Autism

  1. I understand completely what you mean when you say sometimes you wish Josh was in a wheelchair. People could SEE there is something wrong. Having had chronic pain, severe pain, 24/7 pain for yrs. I have found myself wishing the same thing at times. People don’t physically SEE the pain, so I put up with:”but you look good” “can’t you push yourself/” “cancelling at the last minute again!” “what do you mean you can’t dust!” “you take too long to take you shopping” ‘none of us feel that good” many other statements that make me wonder” do you not believe me? or “do you think I exaggerate when I say I CAN”T walk?’. The one I dislike the MOST is “everyone has problems, Eileen” REALLY? Thank you for telling me. I’m 66 yrs. old and have seen more than you will ever see in life; and KNOW that.” I never said I had the worst life. Let’s see you walk 1/2 mile in my shoes. Then tell me. How about LISTENING first and showing a little compassion. Yeah, sometimes I wish I was in a wheelchair too.

    1. Thanks for understanding, Mom. I hope you soon run into someone who understands living with severe chronic pain.

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